Chicken Soup and my Family

A week ago, everyone in my family had come down with a nasty cold/flu that has been going through Miami like those wildfires in the Everglades. We were walking around like sniffling, bleary-eyed zombies addicted to Kleenex and Theraflu. Pitiful. On Saturday after struggling all week with the over-the-counter medications, my wife turned to me and said, “You know what you have to do, don’t you?” I knew.

It wasn’t that I was dreading making the chicken soup, but my new responsibilities at the college were taking their toll, and I thought about the mountain of work that I had brought home. I was determined that not even a cold was going to stop me from finishing the job. I reluctantly told my wife yes with the secret hope that everyone would have forgotten by the next day. 


But by the next morning, my son, Andrew, was downstairs with a list for the supermarket and his stern admonition, “Don’t forget to make the dumplings.” Sometimes I have to remind Andrew and his sister that it’s called “chicken soup,” not “dumpling soup.” So, on Sunday evening after going to the supermarket, I pulled out my stock pot and made my famous chicken soup that my mother taught me how to make.



My mother, Merty Synidia Philp, nee Lumley, was a country girl from a small town named Struie in Westmoreland, Jamaica. According to my aunt, Norma Lumley, my great-grandfather, Andrew Lumley, came over from Scotland to build churches in Bethel Town which is two miles from Struie. My grandfather, Frederick Andrew Lumley, was a baker/shopkeeper/bartender/ farmer/ village reader of letters in Struie. He also worked as a cook on a ship that traveled between Jamaica and Cuba, and he taught my mother how to cook chicken soup the way my great-grandfather taught him. 

My great-grandfather and my grandfather are a part of a Scottish lineage in Jamaica. As youngsters at Jamaica College, we used to joke that when the teachers were taking roll, you could go outside, smoke a cigarette in the bathroom, come back, and they would only be getting to the McKenzies after going through the Mac Adams, McDaniels, McDonalds, and MacDougalls. The meeting of Scotland and West Africa (I will only vouch for those two--who knows what else happened in my grandfather’s bar on a Friday night?) down in Westmoreland tempered by the rigors of farm life and the daily chores of feeding the chickens, tying out the goats, and feeding the hogs produced a set of habits such as dependability, tenacity, and a certain fearlessness toward work and sacrifice that kept my mother’s family together.


For my mother’s family to survive in Struie, they had to be ready for any opportunity that presented itself. My aunts and uncles had careers in fields where opportunities were open: nursing, law enforcement, and teaching. They did well in these professions because they had learned firsthand about dependability and sacrifice in Struie. Everyone on the farm was expected to contribute something. There weren’t any exclusive boys’ jobs (except with the bulls and hogs) or girls’ jobs. You had to help in any way that you could. This tenacity and attitude towards work helped my mother throughout her life. She began as a teacher, and then she became a legal secretary to one of the top lawyers in Jamaica. When she left Jamaica, she started all over again and eventually became a nurse—the career she had always wanted. But she always stressed, if a job had to be done, someone had to step up to the job. If you couldn’t do the job, you could help. This is why she taught me how to cook and to iron my clothes because the last thing she wanted was a wutless man in her house. Everyone had to do something.


So, on Sunday evening it was my turn to do something that no one else could do as well. Whatever I brought home from the college had to be put aside for my family’s sake. I made the chicken soup from Jamaican-Miami recipe with a whole chicken (skinned and quartered by yours truly), thyme (of course), onions, butternut squash (they only had some fenke-fenke pumpkins and the kids prefer squash), dumplings (the kids used to help me make them when they were younger, but they’re teenagers now and way too cool for that. But they did help to carry the bags in from the supermarket), carrots, celery, parsnips (added since we’ve come to Florida—for a little sweetness), chayote (don’t make the mistake of going into the Latin supermarkets and asking for cho-cho, you will get hurt), turnips (I now have immense respect for the turnip since I saw the movie Last Holiday: “It’s not how you start, it’s how you finish”), and scallions added just before serving.


The soup may not have cured our colds, but it gave us a chance to sit down together and have a hearty meal with equally wholesome company. Well, not so wholesome. There was a revival of “The Dumpling War,” a family habit, which I hope our children will never share with their children.

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Comments

Anonymous said…
I can relate to the dumpling wars. When my mother, Norma, makes that same soup, one of the first things I look for are the dumplings. Sure, I still eat everything else in the soup, and my mom always stresses that the nutrition from the vegetables is one of the most important things about the soup. However, I always look forward to the dumplings.

Also, something about fresh ingredients in a homemade soup seems to pick me up whenever I am not feeling well. The stuff in the can definitely cannot compare to the love & attention to the details of my mom's soup, which is evident whenever she makes it.

I am blessed that she can still come over to my place and make that for me. Not that I can't do it myself, but there's nothing that compares to mom's cooking.

Nigel Manderson
Anonymous said…
Dad,

You know there would be no fight over the dumplings if you just.. you know, made more?

:)

Things change, old man; and chicken soup with my children will probably be 'dumpling soup'.

Love, your daughter,
Anna
Pename De Mio said…
Hello!

Jamil Lumley here. You may have heard of me - I'm sort of a big deal. To my knowledge I'm currently the youngest of the Lumley Clan, but perhaps I'm mistaken if your kids are teenagers and also bear the Lumley name? Just read your post and I really liked it. I think I learned as much about the ancient Lumleys from this post as I have at home from my folks.

It's also kind of inspiring to know we have an established writer in the family. That's sort of a dream/goal of mine that latched itself onto me during university. However as a recent graduate, both I and my creditors have agreed it's in my best interest to keep my job at the bank for awhile. But I try to write when I can. I even had a blog on blogspot for some time. Haven't posted in over a year, but we had the same background and everything. Fitting I suppose, given we have the same background and everything.

Check it out if you're interested in the confused and personal rants of a young student trapped in a profitable program he hardly enjoys. http://jamaicanrum.blogspot.com

I might just have to read some more of these posts while I'm at work. Cheers!
Welcome, Jammi. Welcome!

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